Nine people were discussing a business problem.

The challenge they were facing was not there fault; it was circumstances beyond their control that resulted in this problem.

The problem was identified, and they were discussing what they were going to do about it. “What will we do,” asked one of them. One person immediately said, “There is nothing we can do.” That response was unacceptable to the rest of the group and acted as a spark of action. “Yes, there is something we can do!” replied two of them in unison. It was at that point that their minds started to work coming up with solutions.

We are all faced with challenges at some point in our life, challenges that we did not create. Challenges that happened beyond our control. The difference is how we respond to these challenges. You can adopt the attitude there is nothing you can do, or you can see the challenge as your call to action.

As Norman Vincent Peale said,
“Become a ‘possibilitarian’.
No matter how dark things seem to be or actually are, raise your sights and see the possibilities-
Always see them, for they are always there.”

Everyone needs to drive innovation.
Everyone needs to inspire their teammates.
Everyone needs to embrace change.
Everyone needs to take responsibility for results.
Everyone needs to be positive.
Everyone needs to become devoted to expressing their absolute best.

All boils down to one thing is you gotta believe in belief and a great leap of faith to enable yourself to change your mindset and unlock your potential thoughts and open up to a world of possibilities no matter what misfortune may befall. It is something that is unavoidable but doable to conquer it. Of course it is by no easy feat and it requires a great amount of your emotional and intelligent self to enable yourself to move forward. Life moves on and not backward. Come on gentleman and ladies. Make your life an adventure that you would be proud of and a sense of happiness within you no matter big or small. Every moment counts.

Like now that January 2010 has come to an end. It is not the end but the beginning of one’s true self discovery of what you want to do tomorrow and the next day is your creation of discovery. Months can flow by without you realizing that the years you have strolled by seems like nothingness. It is not within you but you have a choice, a destiny to create the life you want.

It is called how to unlock your self belief is actually a leap of faith to change yourself. Change or let it flow by. The choice is yours.

Strong communication skills include the abilities to:

• Listen and understand: Stay quiet, do not interrupt and paraphrase what you heard.

• Make distinctions: Ask insightful questions to understand and confirm what the other person is trying to say.

• Make requests: Get clear on what you want and ask for it.

• Communicate information or opinions: Directly communicate your recommendations and suggestions.

When you effectively apply these communication techniques, you clearly convey your message and better understand the needs of others.

Because the earth is sick. Global warming are everywhere. Nobody cares. They are too busy getting on with their lives. Making money is their first priority in life and it still holds true to this day. Poverty are every where. Fate can sometimes be cruel to all of us. We need to take control of our own destiny, create it and achieve it.

The real cold hard truth.

1) Nobody wish to be poor all their lives
2) Happiness come and go
3) Love can be beautiful and cruel at times
4) Money never end
5) Divorce are everywhere.
6) Sin and vanity are common.
7) Sex is an adventure
8) People doesn’t want to be born that way
9) Emotion is a killer
10) College and university education are expensive
11) Everyone experience stress
12) You can see but can’t touch
13) You evolve after years of learning
14) People are afraid to admit mistakes and failures
15) Everyone live in a subconscious mind without realising the real truth
16) Money, sex and booze
17) Internet porn are everywhere
18) No one is born a genius
19) We all are human beings with emotion
20) People always blame everything

Any problem, from the trivial to the tremendous, is really a question searching for an answer. Here are a few serious global problems and their associated questions:

Global warming: “How can we stop destroying the Earth and still live the lives we want?”

Poverty: ” How can we equally distribute the wealth of the world so that people don’t have to go without the basic necessities of life?”

Unemployment: ” How can we get everyone working in jobs that produce wealth for themselves and help society function better as well?”

(Notice I didn’t say these were easy questions. That is why we haven’t found all the answers yet!)

What about the problems people face on the personal or professional level?

Wanting to be more successful: “How can I be more successful in my life and business?”

Lack of organisation: “Why can’t I find what I am looking for?”

Wanting companionship: “Why can’t I meet the person of my dreams?”

If you want to change any of these, you could use the traditional affirmation method by saying things like: “I am a success, I am organised, I am good enough,” and so on.

You may believe these statements and you may not. Now, if affirmations work for you, that is great. If, however, you find yourself not believing your affrimations (like most of us), and you are not totally satisfied with the results, why not try something so simple, yet powerful, that the traditional success teachers skipped right over it on their way to breakfast:

Rather than making a statement you don’t believe..why not ask a QUESTION that can transform your life?

NOW IT IS TIME TO REPROGRAM YOUR MINDSET.

I am sure most of them do this because they really want to help people. There is only one problem…

When you are unconsciously competent at something, you often don’t know how you are really doing that thing.

For example, when I worked as a professional ballet dancer, I was good, but never the lead dancer. I sweated, worked my butt off, and tried harder than anyone else, but just wasn’t as proficient as the lead guys. Sometimes when I was having trouble with a particular step, I would notice who was doing it naturally and ask them to show me how to do it. And they would say something like, “Just do it…turn your head … just spin …” or something totally not helpful at all!

One day, I realized I wasn’t getting anywhere and asked one of the older members of the company to help me. He wasn’t tallest or strongest, but he was the best teacher, because he patiently showed me how to do the steps by breaking them down until I had mastered them. He was definitely not a Natural, and neither was I but while the Naturals were no help at all, this man helped me more than any of them, because he showed me step-by-step what I needed to do.

It is the same way with the phenomenon called Success. Almost all of the books, speeches and seminars you see on “how to succeed” are being given by Three Percenters–the Naturals at Success. I’m not suggesting that Naturals don’t work hard or haven’t made sacrifices to get where they are; Naturals have to work hard, just like the rest of us. But my point is this:

The true causes of success are often hidden and counter intuitive, even–specially!–to those who are Naturals at Success.

There is something the Naturals (the Three Percenters) are doing that they don’t know they are doing. And no matter how many times they tell you their “secrets of success,” they can’t tell you something they are not consciously aware of. It is like saying to a fish, “So, tell me about water!”

That is why it took a highly educated underachiever like me—and an unexpected twist of fate—to realise that the Three Percenters were living by a code they weren’t consciously aware of. If only the test of us could follow it…

From chapter 3, pg.40, The Secret Code of Success by Noah St. John.