I just received an email from my life coach with the file attachment of an example of My Life Plans. OMG!! It just opened my world of possibilities to face against the giants of IMPOSSIBLE dreams. I will be hacking my mind step by step with training by seeing events of thoughts. Now I believe no goal is too big or too small to achieve in life if you wish to finally taste the bitterness of success no matter what age you are in now. I am in for a long arduous journey.
One day when I age, I will sing my final swansong about my life’s goals that will be a legend known to many. This will encourage me to dream much further. Dreams must be alive not dead. I have read so many self-development books and I have never come across a “MY LIFE PLAN” worksheet that I need to take ACTION. Give up or die trying.
I believe I have a choice to make.
Thoughts to share: Never let yesterday disappointment overshadow tomorrow’s dream.
WAKE UP!!
Come on guys and ladies, take it slow and steady. Time to wake up from reality and accept for what is real and illusion. There are things in life you gotta get what you want and go for it. It all seems too easy to say whatever we want that conjure up in our mind.
Alas.. the point of realities is to do what we do is the HARDEST PART. So therefore we should make the best outta of our LIFE. It all seems easy but on the real life side. It might be harder than you can think of and muster the courage to do things what we want in life. Life’s experiences taught us to learn and go through hardship which we are afraid of. There is no way we can succeed in life if we never have been through hardship no matter what obstacles hurdle at you. Does it all become TOO familiar all the time?!? I am sure everyone does. It always is but the hardest experience is to lead the life we want NOW no matter in the present OR in the future.
So just follow your dreams of TRUE REALITIES. Face it and reprogram our mindset. ^_^
NOTE: My weekend has finally end. It is time to see what week forge for me. I am gonna take charge of my life no matter what is right or wrong. At the very least I am willing to learn from mistakes and turn it into strengths. Time to make my statement firm and steady. The people’s opinion of you doesn’t have to become your realities.
Upon looking back 10 years ago when I was in my younger days. It was a feeling that is left unexplained, decision shaped and forge new understanding for I have made the best of my life in whatever possible way with a distinction mindset.
Life is not all about the people that surround you but yourself that need to resolve your mettle with great hindsight. This requires a big thinking on your part. Thinkers is not a everyday choice you come to face with. It is something people don’t really get to experience. This is 1% thoughs and 99% life’s experience that has surmount a lot of your livelihood.
There are at times, you need to evolve in a better way. Let fear test the best you and change with a bold new wondrous mind. Every year is a battle of hardship where you need to know what is upcoming whenever in your twenties, thirties, forties or even eighties. Your best every 10 years should improve if not improvise. Start now rather than putting your imagination to play. Make time to think in deep thoughts of what you want out of your life. Something you need to venture and make the best of your realistic goal to forge ahead rather than unnecessary thing that can never change. Please don’t. It is a killer if you do not meet changes and open your mind to the worldly events. Must be willing to appreciate life’s finer points.
The world is so big and vast. Go out and experience life’s greatest failures on the planet and have it within your grasp that will change your thinking forever and view it in a different light. Life is a battle and should not be stopped halfway.
The only answer is within you not the people around you no matter how genius a person is. Every genius start from the beginning with every chapter of their story that unfolds. That will be your very turn.
That would be, men.
Where have men been taught their worth comes from? Men, since the beginning of human history, have been taught or told that their worth comes from their possessions, titles, job, net worth, holdings, size of bank account — what I call their material bodies (as opposed to their physical bodies).
While it is also completely politically incorrect to say this, the fact remains that men have been judged almost solely on what they possess or are capable of earning — bringing home the bacon. Of course, this is not where a man’s worth comes from.
So, what if you have a human being who has been told since the beginning of time that his worth comes from … not his physical body, but his material body (even though this isn’t true, it’s what he’s been taught). Let’s further assume that this person develop a really negative self-image. Now you have a person who’s been told that his worth comes from his material body and you add to that a very low sense of self-worth…
Doesn’t it make sense that he will punish that part of himself that he was told his worth comes from — namely, his material body? And if you are going to unconsciously punish your material body, doesn’t it make sense that you are going to starve yourself of success?
False memories allow us to forgive ourselves and justify our mistakes, but sometimes at a high price: an inability to take responsibility for our lives. An appreciation of the distortions of memory, a realization that even deeply felt memories might be wrong, might encourage people to hold their memories more lightly, to drop the certainty that their memories are always accurate and to let go of the appealing impulse to use the past to justify problems of the present. If we are to be careful about what we wish for because it might come true, we must also be careful which memories we select to justify our lives, because then we will have to live by them.
“normal human memory is highly error-prone”.
and I love this one..
“suggestible individuals can have memories elaborated within their minds because of poor therapeutic technique”.
lines taken off by Mistakes Were Made (not by me).
It was an interesting read and I love every moment of this book. It was something that people don’t usually read this kind everyday unless they wants to know what it is in store for them. My 2 cents. ;)
Would recommend this book to anyone who wants to read the inner minds of a psychologist who wrote this book. Actually at first I wasn’t interested in this till I read the whole book. Some of the chapter seems to be rewarding and has educate me in some ways much better than I never thought possible.
MY BLOGS!! Omg…. Looks like ages I haven’t been updating.
Till then,
WOW!! I haven’t blog for so long. As I came back to have a glimmer of look and noticed that I haven’t written anything in 2009. LOL!! So ironic. Haven’t blogged since I am working full time at the moment. Yeah, hell right seems like a lame excuse.
ROFL!!
Looking back, I know and noticed that I haven’t actually written are March, April, June, July, September and October. That is a total of 6 months. O.o!! Oh well, darn it, I think I will be back for some action if I wish to. But alas do not have the time to blog anything about lately because life was SO hectic. I just felt that everything seems like a chapter of books flipping forward without understanding the story of life. SERIOUSLY!! Everything happens so fast, months flew by in a whiz…
No matter if I were in my 30’s, 40’s, 50’s. I gonna play and learn hard to my fullest and be wild all the time. I wanna live beyond my aspiration or something that I should not care what others might think (this only makes you feel worst off). COMPARISON is what people might love to think of. It is not beyond my control to be concern of. That is my life I am going to lead. Life’s experience always has it right and wrong sometimes.
“We are all capable of believing things which we know to be untrue, and then, when we are finally proved wrong, impudently twisting the facts so as to show that we were right. Intellectually, it is possible to carry on this process for an indefinite time: the only check on it is that sooner or later a false belief bumps up against solid reality, usually on a battlefield.”
- George Orwell (1946)
If you want your talent to be lifted to its highest level, then you don’t begin by focusing on your talent. You begin by harnessing the power of your mind. Your beliefs control everything you do. Accomplishment is more than a matter of working harder or smarter. It’s also a matter of believing positively. Someone called it the “sure enough” syndrome. If you expect to fail, sure enough, you will. If you expect to succeed, sure enough, you will. You will become on the outside what you believe on the inside.
Personal breakthroughs begin with a change in your beliefs. WHY? Because your belief is a habit of mind in which confidence becomes a conviction that we embrace. In the long run, a belief is more than an idea that a person possesses. It is an idea that possesses a person. Benjamin Franklin said, “Blessed is he who expects nothing for he shall never be disappointed.” If you want to achieve something in life, you have to be willing to be disappointed. You need to expect to succeed. Does that mean you always will? No. You will fail. You will make mistakes. But if you expect to win, you maximize your talent and you keep trying. Then like Joe Namath, you will eventually succeed.
