I have been re-connecting with my old university mate and keep in touch to ensure there are moments not to be missed. There are best things in life that I have met and lost. But life told me to move on with clarity. Relationship is an investment for me. It is something that is to be treasured and not taken things for granted. I still vividly remember that it takes years to build rapport but takes a second to break it. That is a scary amount of thoughts. Again I still take life as a challenge despite my hearing impairment.

Now I have come to find myself to have a limit beliefs whenever there are roadblocks in my mindset or a path that seems no point of return once action is taken. Might as well dare or move on. *grinning from side to side* Or the people I have met recently that looks so larger than life. Looks like I got a lot of going in me. Gotta see what are the challenges coming along on how to unlimit my beliefs. Now it requires alot of life’s experience to be able to experience the power of unlimiting the limiting decision of my life. Therefore I am in charge of my decision, my thoughts, my mindset and finally my courage self. It takes a great leap of faith within me.

Now I am learning to relax and see the world with positive mindset. Happiness will flow with me. Woohoo..

Clear screen, swish. I am off to bed. Yahoooo…. shhh.. *chuckles*

I am now redesigning my life’s plan once again because there are some things in life I gotta complete before going to the next plan no matter how much it would takes me to achieve as long as I believe in what I want and no more lousy B.S (intimating from Cayden) which means “Belief System” not bullshitting (I bet everyone thought the word “BULLSHIT”). Now I am forming a mental picture what it is like to own an empire one day. That is my anchor techniques to motivate me to greater heights.

From now, my mind can absorb a lot of pictures and am able to imagine what I haven’t thought so before. I am glad I unlocked my mindset to see a greater possibilities. I have came to realized that success and failure are not overnight experiences. It’s all the small decisions along the way that cause people to fail. It’s failure to follow up. It’s failure to take action. It’s failure to persist. It’s failure to manage our mental and emotional states. It’s failure to control what we focus on.

Fast forward to now… Only action allows me to learn what it means to find an answer within. An hour means a lot to me.

The best course of action is to have a plan at hand with a smooth management where things will have a clearer picture if things were to have conflicts. The problem will need to be looked into. Always remember problems are everywhere even though be it in workplace, your lifestyle, your studies and your social circle. This way we will know where things go wrong and adjust to the problem with solution at hand with the correct mindset, mental health so this way the life’s balance will be healthier and a whole new level.

There will be always life’s experience that takes shape to evolve and to no end. The worldly thoughts is never enough to feed off one’s mental information which can cause information overload. To this day, I still believe solution always have a different definite degree of handing the problem with a great self-discipline to muster the courage to move on. Life should be appreciate by people who can truly understand what they have been through to know the viewpoint first hand. You can see but cannot touch. No amount of money can be able to buy your life’s pain that is unexplained by words that no amount of truth can be discovered by people that are misunderstood in different ways.

There are many different ways to share knowledge.

Then things will go your way like a magnet once you focus onto it. So don’t wait for time to go by as a second hand on your watch or clock. Every seconds and minutes counts.

Why, with all this time, money, and energy being spent on self-help, are so few people living the life they really want? Another way to ask this is:

Why are millions of people who have spent so much time and money trying to improve themselves still going down the road of life with one foot on the break?

There actually is an answer to this seemingly unanswerable question. But like most vexing problems, to answer this question, we must first ask a deeper question. The deeper question we need to ask is:

WHAT CAUSE HUMAN BEHAVIOR?

While there may be many ways to answer that question, here’s what I have found to be at once the simplest and most accurate answer to that question. It is a simple answer, because I have found (and I am sure you have, too) that the simplest solutions tend to create the best and longest-lasting results.

From chapter 1, pg.10, The Secret Code of Success by Noah St. John.

This is never ending and I don’t know where to begin and end so I believe it is a journey of my thoughts into something unwavering that I want to venture into my incomprehensible mind. There is something that start of where and which category I belong into but I am in my search of seeking the answer that the limited sky might not have the law of judgment to judge me but therein lies within my incomprehensible intelligent thoughts where there is no man’s land that everyone has venture.

Till then….

So reason yourself is something to give you a finer point of life. Reasoning can aid you with a motivation thinking about success by how much you are willing to go to the extra mile by unlocking your mindset to explore. Achieve something on your own and do something more creative where you haven’t dared to do before. Go ahead and do it. Impress and best yourself first before you can explore many possibilities. You will see brighter days ahead of you and a road to happiness where the words “WHY?” will not occur. Knowing your reasoning with a clearer mind with distinctive pictures helps you to achieve much further.

Do it and don’t try or unless you have the right knowledge to affirm your standpoint.

Most people have been lead to believe that losing one’s job, not getting a merit bonus and not getting a promotion are in grave failures.

For example, suppose you got a job interview last week. You have just received an e-mail message from the company informing you that you have not been selected for the job. would it be fair to say you have failed? Or should we say that your performance in that interview failed.

If you think you have failed as a person, then you will label yourself as a failure and generalise this to other situations. If you feel that failure is due to something internal – your abilities for instance. You might feel hopeless, helpless, and depressed. For example if you have a MBA or in other degree discipline field and you continously update yourself by reading widely and strive to improve your knowledge. You took a driving test and have failed. Does it means your other achievements do not count?

Not necessarily so.

Failure is a judgement about events. Attribute your behaviour to a specific behaviour. Learn to say, “I did not fail but my behaviour failed me”.

Failure is not a comdemnation of character and is not a permanent condition. All of us constantly reinterpret our failures with different purpose. Do not blame other people for our failures. It is a role learning that we have to strive for “improvement not perfection”. Each failure has different purpose, problem solving and specification. It is better to take failure as an experience rather than resisting to failures or you won’t be able to improve in the long run. Accepting defeat is better than facing more problems later in life. It is better to accept challenge and be more resilient to face it rather than running away.

5 common cause for failures are:

1) Poor social skills
Biggest reason are interpersonal skills or social intelligence is one of the most important skill to acquire.

2) Wrong crowd
Sometimes you might be unable to adapt to circumstance. A successful career or in everyday life requires a match of your abilities, personaility style and values with culture.

3) Low self-esteem
Those who lack commitment slot themselves emotionally and tend to avoid risks. They have a job but often wonder why they are not doing better. If you have a half-hearted commitment and a fear of failure is a self-esteem which seems to be lacking. Failures destroy self-esteem and self-esteem can promote failures.

4) Destructive pattern
If you have a repeated mistake in life. Write down the particulars of the incident of the last few months in writing or journals which you have experienced in the past. There are cycle of self-destructive behaviour. In life most of us never see a pattern of what we do.

5) Lack of focus
By trying to do everything we fail to focus one thing at a time. People can fail to set priorities. It is common to degrade failure at something means you have tried. A good learning experience. Try to step abit back and relook at failures and ask yourself what lesson can be learned. In my case study, it is relatively true that many successful people have build their success on failures.

So get rid of failures and embrace boldly. Nothing to be ashamed of. This is life and failure is a function of personal growth and changes. It is often true that we often don’t have the best solution at hand but sometimes when you know it, it can have the resource for you to study the failures as a learning role.

Do kindly take unjust criticism as a disguised compliment. Successful people take responsibilty for their own action and lives.

Don’t be!! Live with it. The law is brutal and we study the law of nature selection. Adapting to change. In corporate world things changes, even expert get it wrong sometimes.

What is true today may not be true tomorrow, what works today may not work tomorrow. The only constant we have is change. It also comes with a price. Lets say if you leave home for 3months for oversea work. When you come home, you will find your kids have changed. Suddenly your baby is calling you “Daddy”. It is not a question of dair or unfair. Everything is moving.