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Life in the fast lane can be a wonderful feeling but can sometimes be a stumbling block in your way. You will see things differently everyday if not days, months and years away. People faced different problem on a daily basis if not months and years. Everyone is faced with different issue that might not be a motivation and an inspiration factor which cause them to lose their dreams, goals and focus that always wither away as time goes by.

You see the world around you and there are people that shot to stardom and some superstars also faced failures in life and has taken the fall but they choose to face it with open heart. There are a many rare few that can stand up on their own two feet. Some can stand with their two hands upside down to see their own perspective in a different way. Viewpoints differ to alot of people and there is no define way of seeing things that has a self-belief. There is no right or wrong to correct your mindset with inner eyes, emotion and mind.

What you see is what you don’t hear?

What you hear is what you don’t see?

Hey, doesn’t it sound familiar but are always ingored upon. It is the world that are thrown at you with anger. Happiness is rarely found within you and it is always so short lived. Happiness are an expensive price to pay but can be acquired within your own self if you seek the answer for yourself that is within you.

The moment of tomorrow will never fade away until you cover it with your both eyes. Turn a blind eyes if you choose to. The choice is yours.

How many times have you heard the “good communication skills”? You know…. the job requirements that stated good communication skills are a must. Are they really that important? Yes. Do most people do a good job of it? No. Don’t take your communication skills for granted. As part of your job, you need to take a step back, evaluate and deploy communication skills that will drive further success. Effective communication skills are what you say and how you say it; your verbal and nonverbal communication.

Strong communication skills include the abilities to:

• Listen and understand: Stay quiet, do not interrupt and paraphrase what you heard.

• Make distinctions: Ask insightful questions to understand and confirm what the other person is trying to say.

• Make requests: Get clear on what you want and ask for it.

• Communicate information or opinions: Directly communicate your recommendations and suggestions.

When you effectively apply these communication techniques, you clearly convey your message and better understand the needs of others.

Why is that so?

Because the earth is sick. Global warming are everywhere. Nobody cares. They are too busy getting on with their lives. Making money is their first priority in life and it still holds true to this day. Poverty are every where. Fate can sometimes be cruel to all of us. We need to take control of our own destiny, create it and achieve it.

The real cold hard truth.

1) Nobody wish to be poor all their lives
2) Happiness come and go
3) Love can be beautiful and cruel at times
4) Money never end
5) Divorce are everywhere.
6) Sin and vanity are common.
7) Sex is an adventure
8) People doesn’t want to be born that way
9) Emotion is a killer
10) College and university education are expensive
11) Everyone experience stress
12) You can see but can’t touch
13) You evolve after years of learning
14) People are afraid to admit mistakes and failures
15) Everyone live in a subconscious mind without realising the real truth
16) Money, sex and booze
17) Internet porn are everywhere
18) No one is born a genius
19) We all are human beings with emotion
20) People always blame everything

Why? Doesn’t matter whether if you have enough time or not. Rushing things will leads to failure thus causing upstages in work, mind, body and soul where you agonize over small or big things that will topple you over. It can cause a headache thus leading to mistakes in life. Success is never an accident. It requires a plan with great hindsight.

The best course of action is to have a plan at hand with a smooth management where things will have a clearer picture if things were to have conflicts. The problem will need to be looked into. Always remember problems are everywhere even though be it in workplace, your lifestyle, your studies and your social circle. This way we will know where things go wrong and adjust to the problem with solution at hand with the correct mindset, mental health so this way the life’s balance will be healthier and a whole new level.

There will be always life’s experience that takes shape to evolve and to no end. The worldly thoughts is never enough to feed off one’s mental information which can cause information overload. To this day, I still believe solution always have a different definite degree of handing the problem with a great self-discipline to muster the courage to move on. Life should be appreciate by people who can truly understand what they have been through to know the viewpoint first hand. You can see but cannot touch. No amount of money can be able to buy your life’s pain that is unexplained by words that no amount of truth can be discovered by people that are misunderstood in different ways.

There are many different ways to share knowledge.

Was bored at night for a brief moment and decide to scribble on the wall. ;p

Everything in life always has a beginning and has no end. It is a common phase in life. Youth is even precious. Make the best out of it. It is common knowledge but many people didn’t have the time to take notice so it should not let life be a fleeting clouds that takes no form. It should have a form if you change your lifestyle which is balanced, healthy with energy and passion. Live the dreams of a dreamer. Put your ideas into massive action and act on it.

Then things will go your way like a magnet once you focus onto it. So don’t wait for time to go by as a second hand on your watch or clock. Every seconds and minutes counts.

I have experienced the closeness intense eye contact engenders with a stranger firsthand. Once, when giving a seminar to several hundred people, one woman’s face in the crowd caught my attention. The participant’s appearance was not particularly unique. Yet she became the focus of my attention throughout my talk. Why? Because not for one moment did she take her eyes off my face. Even when I finished making a point and was silent, her eyes stayed hungrily on my face. I sensed she couldn’t wait to savor the next insight to spout from my lips. I loved it! Her concentration and obvious fascination inspired me to remember stories and make important points I did long forgotten.

Right after my talk, I resolved to seek out this new friend who was so enthralled by my speech. As people were leaving the hall, I quickly sidled up behind my big fan. “Excuse me.” I said. My fan kept walking, “Excuse me,” U repeated a tad louder. My admirer didn’t vary her pace as she continued out the door. I followed her into the corridor and tapped her shoulder gently. This time she whirled around with a surprise look on her face. I mumbled some excuse about my appreciating her concentration on my talk and wanting to ask her a few questions.

“Did you, uh, get much out of the seminar?” I ventured.

“Well, not really,” she answered candidly. “I had difficulty understanding what you were saying because you were walking around on the platform facing different direction.”

In a heartbeat, I understood. The woman was hearing impaired. I did not captivate her as I had suspected. She was not intrigued by my talk as I had hoped. The only reason she kept her eyes glued on my face was because she was struggling to read my lips!

Nevertheless, her eye contact had given me such pleasure and inspiration during my talk that , tired as I was, I asked her to join me for coffee. I spent the next hour recapping my either seminar just for her. Powerful stuff for an eye contact.

Upon looking back 10 years ago when I was in my younger days. It was a feeling that is left unexplained, decision shaped and forge new understanding for I have made the best of my life in whatever possible way with a distinction mindset.

Life is not all about the people that surround you but yourself that need to resolve your mettle with great hindsight. This requires a big thinking on your part. Thinkers is not a everyday choice you come to face with. It is something people don’t really get to experience. This is 1% thoughs and 99% life’s experience that has surmount a lot of your livelihood.

There are at times, you need to evolve in a better way. Let fear test the best you and change with a bold new wondrous mind. Every year is a battle of hardship where you need to know what is upcoming whenever in your twenties, thirties, forties or even eighties. Your best every 10 years should improve if not improvise. Start now rather than putting your imagination to play. Make time to think in deep thoughts of what you want out of your life. Something you need to venture and make the best of your realistic goal to forge ahead rather than unnecessary thing that can never change. Please don’t. It is a killer if you do not meet changes and open your mind to the worldly events. Must be willing to appreciate life’s finer points.

The world is so big and vast. Go out and experience life’s greatest failures on the planet and have it within your grasp that will change your thinking forever and view it in a different light. Life is a battle and should not be stopped halfway.

The only answer is within you not the people around you no matter how genius a person is. Every genius start from the beginning with every chapter of their story that unfolds. That will be your very turn.

We typically fear, try to avoid, ignore, or get away from problems. But really, a problem is simply a question hasn’t been answered yet.

Any problem, from the trivial to the tremendous, is really a question searching for an answer. Here are a few serious global problems and their associated questions:

Global warming: “How can we stop destroying the Earth and still live the lives we want?”

Poverty: ” How can we equally distribute the wealth of the world so that people don’t have to go without the basic necessities of life?”

Unemployment: ” How can we get everyone working in jobs that produce wealth for themselves and help society function better as well?”

(Notice I didn’t say these were easy questions. That is why we haven’t found all the answers yet!)

What about the problems people face on the personal or professional level?

Wanting to be more successful: “How can I be more successful in my life and business?”

Lack of organisation: “Why can’t I find what I am looking for?”

Wanting companionship: “Why can’t I meet the person of my dreams?”

If you want to change any of these, you could use the traditional affirmation method by saying things like: “I am a success, I am organised, I am good enough,” and so on.

You may believe these statements and you may not. Now, if affirmations work for you, that is great. If, however, you find yourself not believing your affrimations (like most of us), and you are not totally satisfied with the results, why not try something so simple, yet powerful, that the traditional success teachers skipped right over it on their way to breakfast:

Rather than making a statement you don’t believe..why not ask a QUESTION that can transform your life?

NOW IT IS TIME TO REPROGRAM YOUR MINDSET.

That is his first post for birthday boy in September 5th 2009. Sorry for the wait.

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Another one just for fun. For Quentin…